Late to the game

[Free]

Lots of walking/jogging, going to the gym, or hanging with friends. I try to avoid the bar scene, but I've enjoyed the few times I've gone to them.
I spend a lot of time reading different post here and also re-reading DR.

I think I found my man voice again, and I'm going to use it.
Of course, in a friendly, detaching way.
I can see that I have evolved into the classic nice guy, especially since BD. I basically took all blame for everything wrong in our M and became a quiet blob of jelly so I did not further upset W.
Jelly blobs are not very worthy of respect, so I'm bringing a part of the old me back. The louder, more talkative part. The part that speaks with confidence. Even if my W does not respect me, I will.