i love the mystery part slowly! love it!
on michele's keeping love alive CDs she talks about shaking things up like this and not being so predictable. she says that we've been wondering about our S so often....it's time to get them to wonder about us!! and yes....get him to chase you!! doesn't michele describe relationships like a see-saw? the more we do of something, the less our spouse will do. if you pursue him less...and keep adding some mystery and unpredictability....perhaps he'll start pursuing you! time to shake him up a bit!

wow-i think it's great that you had a nice night with your H. hand holding....cuddling...intimacy... congratulations!