No R talks because they will be too emotionally charged and you might end up begging, pleading reasoning etc to stay together.
Also the longer the time before the next R talk, the longer YOU have to change into that man ANY woman would be a fool to leave.
Think of the MAN you would like to be?? Are you that Man , how can each action you do get you closer to that man.? Are you a nice guy who has been walked over? Has W treated you like a doormat?
Have you read No More Mr NiCe Guy or Hold on to Your NUTS?
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16