Does she have any contact with OM?

No R talks because they will be too emotionally charged and you might end up begging, pleading reasoning etc to stay together.

Also the longer the time before the next R talk, the longer YOU have to change into that man ANY woman would be a fool to leave.

Think of the MAN you would like to be?? Are you that Man , how can each action you do get you closer to that man.?
Are you a nice guy who has been walked over? Has W treated you like a doormat?

Have you read No More Mr NiCe Guy or Hold on to Your NUTS?


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16