Hey isittoolate,

I did get her a gift, I am getting her immediate family a gift (MIL,FIL,BIL,BIL fiancée). Kids are getting a gift for W as well. But she doesn't know that I am getting gift for her side of the family. She has already got them all gifts from the kids and asked for me to pay for half.

I am not spending a lot, $25 on each, but they are thoughtful. I am showing her and her family that she would be a fool to leave me.

I am going to give her a Christmas card.
There will be a lottery ticket in it.
And because we are still married, if she wins so do I, Ha ha

I have not heard from W today. not a text or email. Maybe this is her backing off. Maybe I am getting too close for her comfort.
Or she is having a busy day.

Doesn't matter, I will still do what I am doing.

It not a good feeling when you think you might be plan B.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016