Need Help (new thread)

[AU Bob]

Im starting to get a little worried and dissapointed.
I have my D17 living with me. I have to take care of her and her day to day needs. WAW has been increasingly comming and takeing her away for most of the weekends, i have not been too worried about it until now. I have noticed that D has been saying things that make me think she is trying to make her look like she has done nothing wrong, justification.
D was talking to me the other day and said that Her mother was telling her about OM's new girlfriend, it's news to me, there is none, it's her mother! Just another attempt to cover it up and take the heat off her.
The other thing was D now has an opinion on falling out of love with some one, every one has a right to an opinion, but there is always two sides to the story, and she dosent want to hear mine.
Im starting to wonder if she is better off with her. Im getting a bit down on it because im doing all the parenting hard slog and WAW is taking her away and getting all the social stuff and starting to fill her head with all sorts of lies and she is falling for it.
Im starting to wonder if i should just get moving on selling the house and getting out get my own place and let her go live with her mother, let her take the responsibility, and not just the good times.
I find it hard to get her to do much with me, mom takes her shopping and buys her stuff and spends loads of money on her, i cant compete with that.
D seems to have forgotten what her mother is doing with OM.
What should i do?