Keep being strong and do not give any more wood for his fire.
He is spinning out of control. And you are right, he is trying to make you feel guilty because he is in this mess. So keep doing what you are doing.
Be aware that he will try even further. So be prepared and do not react to his now crazy state of mind.
But let's forget about him for a minute. How is your improvements coming? ***Short? or are you starting some plans on how to improve yourself, be a better person, become a woman only a fool would leave?
Did you finish reading DR or DB? did you set your goals so you can measure your results? What is in the menu about exercise, it is good for losing weight but it is also good for your brain, exercising release some chemicals to your brain and puts you in a better mood, makes you think clearly. Diet? Hair? Nail? Activities with the little ones?
Any XMas plans?
You see, things can be small but they need to be for you and the kids. Start to concentrate on you and don't just wait by the phone for his next message.
Amazing as it is, this was a mistake I did not do. I sometimes missed his calls or texts because I was not paying attention to my phone.
Real good, keep up the good work, you will do it. Hugs, Pink
