It's already nasty! So, get prepared b/c it's going to get a lot worse. The LBH who dilly-dallied around, hoping his WW will end her A and want to work on the M, can thank himself when things getting worse.
I think I am there as it is getting worse. Last night, WW is working on things for this weekend's party we are hosting. She hands me a check from her newly created bank account and tells me she went to Costco and used debit card from my account (although its a joint account); so paying me back. I was caught off guard and asked what was the check for? She went off and cut the debit card up as she did the other night with the Costco AMEX.. saying here I won't use this either. Just because I asked for clarification on why she handed me a check..
Later she tells me she is not going on road-trip to College Football Bowl Game on New Years Eve with family friends. She plans to tell kids the night before.. kids already said they do not want to go if we do not go as a family. She said she does not want to go because she does not want to be with me.
WW tells me that we need to get a 3rd party to help us determine cost of living because it's unfair for her to pay half when I make more; that we need to factor all the other things besides just bills.