She often says all she ever wanted was some space and time to figure it out. She wanted to choose me and our M but I wouldn't give her space.

IT'S BS!!!! I told her I would move out if she would stop contact with OM. She refused. I actually did leave for a 3 week span bc she said she would stop contact and wanted to work on us. She's a liar and never stopped talking to the OM. I moved back in and into the basement. Then after reading on here that I should never leave the MBR I reclaimed the MBR.

I told her she could leave at any time.

She wanted a separation but she wanted to be able to stay comfy in the house, keep cheating and have me in a one bedroom apt somewhere. Forget it. I'm not doing anything wrong.

But anyway I'm looking forward to the peace I'll have in my life. I hope she will do the work on her own to get healthy and better but if she doesn't it will no longer be a problem in my life. If she wants me back the way she believes it could work for us then she will still need to put in the work

Her Circus Her Monkeys


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place