thanks LL2F. i'm sorry you are not having such a good time, i'll stop by in a few minutes. thanks for the encouragement. just going to review our sunday:
positives + H invited me for a morning run again, we had an invigorating time + discovered water heater had packed up, H took lead to get handyman in and fix it + H organised for us to go see movie - again, usually this has fallen on me - great that he is stepping in we saw Hellboy, which was quite a laugh + H woke me up at 4 - ML very emotionally
negatives - well, i'm still obsessing about his daily contact with OW, the chats about how they feel, and probably the bitching about their mutual spouses (thwack, thwack - i know, i'm crazymaking, but i'd rather rant here than at H, so please bear with me) - H asked me if I had contact with OW's sister, and i replied that my original intention when A was over to not have any further contact, but now that H and OW have resumed contact, i did not see any reason to curtail my friendship. needless to say, H was in a right mood about it. question to dbers out there - should i continue this friendship which developed out of her concern for me?
goals i'm gonna to stick with the ones for the week, but every day, i will find at least two opportunities to validate, compliment or praise H - i intend to fill up his tank while i continue to GET A LIFE
we saw Hellboy, which was quite a laugh
