Can ALL marriages be saved Vol. 3

[Mona52]

Sometimes I think it is so much harder when they are home.

But, it should not make one difference if he was home or on the moon. Your life is yours now and he is not part of that. If he chooses to live in the same house, fine, but NOT the same room. You have to be firm on this. The bedroom is only for 2 monogamous, committed, married people. (Unless you agree on a more open M, which is sounds like you have not).

When he is there you must do one important thing. It is critical!

FOCUS ON YOU!

When he is not there, there is one REALLY REALLY important thing you must do.

FOCUS ON YOU!

I am trying to imagine if my H moved back in without wanting to R, what would I do different. I think I would find reasons to go out a heck of a lot more.