i'm starting with the woman in the mirror. my goals for this week are:

re-connect with my family - since the bomb, i've maintained a distance in case my pain becomes evident. i'm now going to focus on getting more grounded by spending time with my mum, brother, and cousins. given that i will be acting as if, there should be no reason for them to suspect, and their love will be an excellent balm to my bruised heart
re-connect with friends - same here. i'm going to plan to take june off, just by myself if necessary, and hang out with friends i have not seen in a long time. may spend some time in boston, maybe catch up with resident dbers even
expect nothing from H - treat H as a great friend, sometimes an intimate friend, and leave it at that for now
continue efforts to sell flat - need to get off the fence and appoint an agent. i wish H was more involved in this process, but given that he was reluctant to sell to start with, the fact that he is keen to have me appoint an agent is progress i should be thankful for
learn from more experienced dbers - i must catch up on rotz the PMA-on-steroids woman's story, and others. stop wallowing in self pity. pay more attention to detail. read the books that came in last week.

oh, there is so much to do. no time to crazymake lots of hugs, slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time