Hi Mutatio, I am having the same realization just not feeling calm about it. Like my new name? I want to join in that campfire!
Fo - Love the new name...so clever! LOL
M - we were talking about learning to stop hating ourselves. Where should we start? I was thinking about making lists: Things I've Done I Regret, Things I Don't Like About Myself, etc. Once I've got that started, I was thinking about working through them one by one - what I can change, can I make amends?, making amends if possible, forgiving myself and letting it go.