oh my, i feel better already amazing how fragile PMA can be. thanks a lot dazed. i'm so happy to have my instincts validated. my hunch was to go a little, well maybe a lot, mysterious and get a life this week. i've done all i can to make H comfortable and confident in my love, and he seems to be taking it for granted. so, on to the offensive. stay tuned. i am now going to start with the woman in the mirror. love, slowly