I hope everyone is having a better day. I woke up and Mr was NOT the 1st thing in my mind.

The kids are asleep and i am out back relaxing. Last night he text me to say he has plans for Christmas eve and would like to come By after to see the kids. Also he would like to see then open gifts.

Knowing how easily it seems for him to have made plans on a family holiday so soon after BD hurts. But i kept my reply short and what I hoped was non chalant.

Told him not to worry about cutting his evening short and making that drive here as kids would be in bed. And he shouldn't have to eat 2 dinners. That he is welcome to come the 25th to see them open thier gifts. Then i left it alone.

That is a lot different reply than I would usually give.


Rain (moi): 40
Ex Fiance: 39
3 kids
On/off again EA & PA
Last BD by ow 12/15
Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15