She Wants Me to Leave 3rd Time .....EA or not EA?

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So I had 3 snippets of positivity from W yesterday even though she is 'down and depressed' - her words

1. She asked me to do a shoulder rub - she was tearful but couldn't explain why.
Note: She has day off work today
2. 'She said 'it's a pity you are going away tomorrow - we could have had a James Bond afternoon' - I am working away and she would have liked to watch Quantum of Solace and Casino Royale together before booking Spectre over Christmas.
3. A button was lost off her new dress and I suggested looking for a replacement on the tags - she found one and said ' your not just a pretty face!'

Today W was still down and a bit grumpy. I went to get breakfast out and left her to take kids to school - she always wants to do it when off work as she misses doing school run. I wanted to get out of her way.

Later we met at school to go to kids event - initially she blanked me while talking to another mom - it annoyed me but I never pulled her up on it - not the time or place. The other mom greeted me and I got talking with both W and other mom. All good and me being chatty and positive.
Later in school , W leaned close to me smiling and asked if I was ok and was I grumpy because I didn't want to spend breakfast with her. I replied no she was grumpy and I like to relax and enjoy breakfast with coffee and newspapers.

I have had a great PMA last night and this morning being very chatty and engaging with others - I feel more confident when I am out with W and others that we know and around us.

She is the one who appears withdrawn and down - at least over the last 2 days.