Ah, thanks so much Pink. It is good to have you around my friend. I had a nice evening out with two women from the divorce recovery workshop. Looks like the three of us will go out again some time soon. We talked about our sitches, ourselves, life in general and had some good laughs.

Feeling a bit ugh this morning. H very much been on my mind since I heard from the L yesterday. Did a bit of online snooping this morning. I know - poor idea. Not done that for many months and it reminded me that it's not good for me. Didn't find anything important out - just not a nice feeling when you do it. Also feeling an urge to be in contact, which I'm resisting. I think it is best that I let things drift until the new year. Then I can start making plans for 2016.

Interesting one of the women last night is five years out from BD and D a few years ago. She got together with another guy pretty soon after BD and that R ended last year. It does seem to be a theme with many of these R's that start up quickly during a traumatic period.

Anyway - how I feel today does remind me that I feel pretty good most of the time now and don't obsess much about H and our sitch - so that's a good thing. I'll just keep working through it all. Oh, one thing I did learn was H's most recent purchase was for a stress relief massager - my Dad had one and I can recall H and I trying it out a while ago - so I guess he or someone close to him is feeling some pressure...

Oh well, time to stop worrying and wondering about him - this too shall pass....

Have a good day all xx

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus