Slowly, I posted on the wrong thread. I posted to my thread. I will reiterate here. You are doing a great job. You are blessed to have a R with your H. Try not to let OW get to you at least he is with you and wanting to work on M. He could be with her and not want to work on M. So take it slow and keep DBing. I suggested on my thread that maybe you should do a 180 on your MIL and show them both the changes in you. Kill her with kindness. Be thoughtful and considerate. Plan some time with just her and enjoy it. Good luck and keep it up. Randy
