[BrightFuture]

Thanks everyone for the input. I will see what H comes up with and then will go from there.

I hear us Bright I do... And I'm here for you no matter what 100 percent.

I feel angry with your H. As your friend, I feel angry.

Just don't forget the anger is a vital part of the process which opens the door to forgiveness. It's crazy, but true. :-)

Thank you, Heather. You are truly a great friend.

FY, you are always so kind and optimistic. Every time I read your posts, I see some hope. It is the way you phrase your responses, and also the way you are standing for your M and your wife. Thank you for stopping by again .

So, during H’s last “appearance” at the house, when I handed him his check, he asked me to deposit it, since he doesn’t have our bank chain anywhere close to where he was going to. He said that he would also let me know which invoices to apply that check to, since the amount was less than he submitted. I didn’t hear from him about this until yesterday. I suppose he was busy playing and didn’t have time to think about the business. His text was very detailed and very polite. Mr. good guy

Coincidentally, the night before one of our mutual friends on FB posted a few videos taken this past January. The video was taken during the off road races near the vacation home. On one of the videos people were screaming while a race car was approaching, and then I saw H waking towards the camera with a smirk on his face. Apparently, H got very close to the race track (it is a dirt road and there are no barriers) and I think he mooned the car. He looked like he was very proud of himself. Speaking about rebellious, risk taking teenager…

So, the text next day almost looked like he was trying to portray himself as a responsible person, hehe. Might be just my speculation…

Another thing that I found a bit strange. My BIL (H’s brother) texted me last Saturday, asking how I was doing. I texted back and asked him about his condition and if he needed any help. He replied back saying that he is sore, but not too bad. Then he said that we should get together this week. WTF? He might feel a little guilty about not telling me that H was here. Or… he might just need a ride to the pub, LOL.

I have two holiday parties at work this week, one for the department and another for the company. Need to gather some energy.