I get that I can come across as aloof when I don't warm up. Guys have pointed this out to me. At this point in time, I also find that I tend to gravitate towards the female company in the room in unfamiliar situations, just safer and less threatening, I think.
I guess we will just have to let our guards down. I think sometimes people can sense that we are still holding out for something, this brick wall part.
Maybe we will just have to take time to get there?
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
