Hi otw,

He swears A is done. Not really believing that. And even if it is I believe it will start again as it's always been an on again off again A.

And funny you said that about being second choice. During one of our calmer talks this week i said precisely that. I am done being second choice.

Thanks for the advice. You guys are life savers. Helping me not mess this up any worse than I already have. And trust me I have done some damage. Sigh

Rain (moi): 40
Ex Fiance: 39
3 kids
On/off again EA & PA
Last BD by ow 12/15
Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15