First, you crack me up. I seriously laughed out loud at the Ken doll in the Walmart dumpster comment. Priceless!
How did finals wrap up for your boys?
Becky is right. H is cake eating in a major way. H hasn't had to deal with any consequences at this point, has he? If his choice is to leave, continue to be the Melweb only a fool would leave. Your rendezvous may have been what thought you needed, but keep your eye on the big picture.
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