Yes, actions have consequences and we have to live the path we choose. Others react in response to our actions and we don't get to control them.

If others don't think it is 'okay' they won't fall in with plans we would like. Just the reality of situations like these I think.

You may not even want to go as far as responding to his request. You've had a few suggestions from posters - what are you inclined towards doing my friend?? x

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus