Rain75: New post re: OW

[Rain75]

If the goal is to R but you just had BD and he wants to rug sweep what would be a good DR/DB reply to him when he says he can't believe that though I have had many nasty things to say about his A (and i have but am trying to stop mentioning it or ow) that Ive yet to tell him that I miss him or invite him over for a meal to see the children?

Side note: i haven't told him i miss him (and i soooo do) because all signs point to his mental space being occupied by ow and reading the boards it seems anything loving i tell him would work against me right now.

Any advice is appreciated.