Thanks for the reply. I need to get it straight and I read a post that had the difference between love and smothering that was very helpful. So what I am doing right now is not smothering her. I can see how that could change so easily. I also read that for every year together equals one month of time to pass for healing.
I need to be patient and continue the way I am going. I do need to get back to focusing on me and the kids.
W has texted me today so I have replied back. we have been texting back and forth all day. Mostly about logistics. I have been keeping them no pressure and not needing replies, but she keeps replying.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016