melweb, I haven't read through your entire sitch yet, but it doesn't sound H has backed off his intention to move out. If that is the case maybe you need to set some boundaries. He can't expect you to be his wife in everyway from now until Jan 1 and then not any more.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
