To contact or not to contact that is the question

[Sotto]

Hi Jpeg, I would let him know there is only youngest around and he may want to link with them to arrange another date. Of course, you will already have going out plans once that date is set up, and will breezily head out of the door leaving behind a waft of delicious scent.

If you don't want him in the home cooking dinner, perhaps you could suggest he arrange to take them out for dinner.

Above all else, remember that if he is with OW, he doesn't get to spend time with you. Plus, I think the kids are old enough for him to link direct with them. IMHO - Anything else that involves you is cake-eating and I wouldn't go there (of course, he may just be asking for another slice now...but if your own boundary holds firm then no problem.

I wouldn't ask him why he wants to do this....as long as he's with OW, I don't think that matters too much...JMHO of course and good luck with whatever you decide xx