Awww Pho. That really stinks but I'm a little jealous. I have never once confronted H with all the pain he has caused.

You are right, he can't be what you need right now. He is not capable and you have to let him alone to fix or not. he is trying to love you. Maybe he will get there some day soon.

I think his time away will be good for you all. I would just suggest that you try to make the last interaction one where you are positive, calm and confident.

Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming