Now who the heck is rewriting history???? Knock it off.

Now!

Yep, she said she did not like this or that in the M. I am 100% positive you did not just sit there and say to yourself, "I don't care what she wants or needs."

It is like the example, man "if we were intimate more i would be more loving", woman "if you were more loving I would be intimate more."

Both are at fault, but neither are to blame. You were not a horrible H. You did not cheat, or gamble or beat on her, right?

It is OK to recognize your flaws and work on fixing them, but no one here is going to allow you to rewrite your M with you as the bad guy, because you have bared your soul here and we know you.

I never specifically asked you to help me PP. Yet, there were days when it was ONLY your words on my silly thread that pulled me through. The way you give out compliments, I know for a fact you enjoy complimenting people. I also know that if you think back over your M, you complimented her. And you did it in ways no one else in the entire world could have and never will, for the rest of her life.

So, when you think about beating yourself up because you were at fault (pfft), remember just that one thing, compliments. You were the best!

And as for beating you up, that is 100% our job, thank you very much, and we don't need your help.




(See how nice we do it?)


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!