Busy day at work today and a quick catch up on the forum before I go out with a couple of women from the Divorce Recovery Workshop for a drink.
Heard from my L today. Looks like H has provided these outstanding accounts, although my L has raised a couple of queries on them. She also advised that a date has been set for the Decree Nisi to be issued (8th Jan.) H can file for the Decree Absolute from 22nd Feb onwards, and if he doesn't I could apply for it from 3 months after that. Looks like the D could be final before the end of Feb.
I'm not sure how the house sale/financial picture fits into all of that - but it's all in process and I'm in competent legal hands, so I won't worry too much. Looks like my L will be off until early Jan from this week, so doubt I'll hear much more in the meantime.
Had a Xmas team lunch today. Someone told a story about a nice former male colleague of ours. In his 40s, he suddenly ditched his job and his W, and moved to London with another woman. We were all pretty shocked. I can recall talking to him and being surprised he didn't seem at all upset about the ending of the M. My boss told me that he and his W got back together again, and it seems like he had some sort of huge midlife crisis, followed by regrets and a return to his W. Always interesting and heartening to hear these stories - but then got back home to the stuff from the L - oh well.
Hope you are all having a good day my lovely DB friends xx
Last edited by Sotto; 12/15/1506:43 PM.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
