Rain75: New post re: OW

[Rain75]

Hey Annab....his AP is an ex so someone he has history with... while i admit that of course we had issues and that I did many wrong things to put him in a position to think an A was a good choice. He readily admits he had not gotten over her before we started. And up until last week he was still telling her he misses and loves her and says how fabulous a person she is.

Makes me question if we (I at the moment) can really save our R.

And I will be working on the HW Pink gave me and will list his good qualities as well as what I have to work on within myself.

Thanks Anna for giving me a little of your story. I know that it is in hoping I don't follow the same path which can cause our R and family to be lost forever.

On a high note. Even though he hasn't contacted me and it hurts. I have not contacted him either. He asked for space and peace so I am giving it to him.