GB
thank you. That was very insightful. I know you get some guff around here based on some posts. I think maybe it is taken out of context sometimes and maybe some people just don't believe the healing process can be helped by knowing about the affair or continuing to snoop.

I do agree when you go to battle you better know all you are up against.

I will take your thoughts into consideration and process.

While I have your attention, a few posts ago I posted a question regarding the xmas holiday and whether or not to involve W. if you don't mind I would like your input.

thanks again

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15