Stand4u...sorry youre here. Im new too. Just a week from last BD. I don't have any pointers but I will say it helped me a lot to read all of the links all of us newbies are given. They didn't sink in much that first time but reading them again helped.

If you are giving her space and not pursuing i would think you are ahead of the game.


Rain (moi): 40
Ex Fiance: 39
3 kids
On/off again EA & PA
Last BD by ow 12/15
Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15