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[NateG79]

Thanks guys. I guess the biggest difference for me is that this has happened 3 times in our 10 year relationship, and this one bites the biggest because of D involved. Thing is, I don't really know that I want to be married to her anymore. I don't know that the level of damage to that trust can ever be fixed. Since she lives in a separate apartment on the other side of town, I can no longer confirm or deny the existence of an A. We are barely neighbors at this point, my only focus is me and D2. She imposed this 6 month trial separation for reasons unknown to me. Her affair partner is married, has 2 kids and a mortgage. I don't know what there is to figure out. I just know my worth as a person, and I'm nobody's backup plan. Maybe the easy way out is the way to go this time.