I have been very careful with all of the finace aspect of things and we do have a signed separation agreement already.

Other than the legal situation what is your train of thought for now that we are living apart. Or do you believe the only way to having something repaired is the possible OM being brought to light and causing her to be scared of losing all financial aspects?
Do you believe in any other way of reconciliation?

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15