slowly-
we meet again....what a great post with your ground rules! i've taken them to heart for myself!! i am hoping to be in your position where we are working towards reconciliation and it certainly does help to have your feelings and experiences to learn from as we all progress towards that point...and we all will progress towards that point. i know you have your good moments and bad....believe me i'm still trying to figure out how my W led this double life for a month until i found out....and how you can feel feelings for 2 people at once....DRIVES ME MAD too!!


thank you for sharing with all of us...
AND FOR EVERYONE: IT WAS SO GREAT TO READ YOUR RESPONSES AS WELL!!
while it isn't possible to reply to everyone, just being able to read your successes and not so successess and to hear your feelings makes me realize that i am not alone (unfortunately...i'm sure we all wished we met one another under better circumstances!) but i wanted to thank you all for sharing your hearts with all of us and with me!

there are so many moments when i just need to hear a friendly voice....or read a friendly post and i'm so glad i have a haven here with all of you!

slowly---thank you especially for helping me as much as you have! you are an inspiration to me you know! and you are very much appreciated!!