Good morning, D! Just checking in...saw your supportive post on my thread, too. I really appreciate that.
I think you're right about how seeing H for who he is and not for who I remember is definitely helping with detachment. H now repels me. He doesn't look anything like Napoleon, but for some reason when I think of how arrogant and entitled he is, that's what comes to mind. Weird.
Divorce and agreements? You are wise to get it all in writing and signed. She had no problem breaking a GIANT vow to you, so what would a smaller promise be to her?
I ran into that problem yesterday when my L asked me something about H. My first, immediate reply was in his favor...and then I had to back up. He lies to me all the time. I have no idea how long he's been doing it. It's awful to realize I can't trust him. Period.
You can't trust W, either. It sux. Oh, well. You've at least made good friends, on your own, who value things like character and integrity, so you're among like-minded!
I miss tickle fights...and zerberts! Do you have zerberts where you live? I loved playing with my kiddos. I am so happy you are treasuring every moment. It really goes by way too quickly.
