Just keep swimming in a new direction

[tl2]

Darn right you can do this, get past this. Not only that...You are doing it!

I really really don't know if he has any feelings for me now, or if he ever had any for me? I have always wondered if he chose me because I was conveniently in his path?

How much does it help you to wonder about that now? What do you get out of doing so?

Come to think of it, I can't remember when was the last time he told me that he loved me.

I do hope you don't allow XH's betrayal to define you, because it doesn't. It defines him.

What are you doing to see yourself clearly and make the choices that define who you are becoming now?