Hi Huddy! It sounds like you're making some progress. It's really early in my situation compared to yours - but I don't even see a glimmering of a possibility I can ever slide into friendship with H. Of course, there are some other differences, too. But friendship after such a long and brutally ended marriage? I just don't see it. My plan right now is to never see him again.
I finally dropped the rope. Somehow, H sensed it and became a monster. I just don't understand the WS. He finally gets what he says he wanted and then is unhappy about it?
I hate that we're going through this. I love stories like yours that show progress and change. Right now, I'm clinging to them for hope.
