So, you have some intel. Why don't you bring this up in a conversation? You know 'I really enjoyed doing a***' etc. and see if she opens up. Maybe she's just experimenting and doesn't think you'll be forthcoming.
Difficult when mixed in with a BD. Is she still talking about separation?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015