A couple of odd behaviors from W. 1st beginning last week, W found a special lighter. She accused s14 of using drugs. Over and over. Now this might be a true accusation, but W is obsessing about it. You think I may be over-stating this? Here's a story to prove my point:
W finds a special lighter in the laundry. She and om go to the park where s14 hangs out with his friends. They find a 'dealer' who explains the lighter's function - it is specially made for use with a bong.
Then W repeatedly talks to s14 about it, which is driving him crazy. Now I recently had him for a week, and I did not smell anything like pot smoke. I asked him point blank - is this your pipe? S14 said "no". Are you taking drugs? He looked me in the eye and again tells me "no". I told him I believed him.
Now if W had found some drugs this would be a different story. Hmmm, and there is a third person now living with W - namely, om. I don't know him, but I think a 44 year old man is more likely than a new to the area 14 year old with no source of income, for taking drugs. But I guess I am in s14's corner.
A quick update on my Dad. He is still in the hospital, and several things are not looking good. He has congestive heart failure. He has cancer in the liver and lungs. His bladder is failing. He can't breathe very well. And he is getting these weird large growths that appear very quickly. He had a biopsy on one of the growths, and so we should know fairly quickly what is causing this.
So I text the kids and W with updates on what is going on with their "Papa". The kids in Boston (d19 and d18) are especially interested in the updates. Anyway, W texts me 2 nights in a row asking if anyone is staying with my Mom. A nice enough thought, but my family is no longer anything that part of W's life. So I didn't respond.
But then W calls my SiL asking this same question, which SiL shut down quickly. W is showing signs of poor judgment and obsession which makes me feel annoyed. It is not what I want to deal with as I am dealing with my Father's health issues.
