I am in a similar sitch -only difference is that my H has not shown any signs of ending the A with OW - for now.
Quote: why does my H do this? why is he loving towards me and at the same time, pursue another relationship? shouldn't the end mean the end?
I've also battled with this question many, many times...And I never get an answer I am truly satisfied with. Do what your heart tells you to do. At many times I've about almost given up and filed myself...but since I keep insisting that "the end is NOT necessarily the end" ...I keep DB'ing very hard and the positives are well worth it.
You are probably very overwhelmed with questions about the OW and sometimes it's very hard to not voice them...I am very guilty of this! But definitely think of the RED STOP SIGN...Or simply think of something else or ask something else that is not OW related.
I know this is very hard - but you've come a long way baby!
But definitely think of the RED STOP SIGN...Or simply think of something else or ask something else that is not OW related.
