Bright, you always were, and still are, a very loving wife. Your husband is very fortunate to have you. Please always remember this.
As for anger, here's my take. Life is much too short to live it in anger. If you can do with less of it, great! Of course we all will have to deal with some anger, but I see no reason to worry about not having enough of it. Enjoy your life... every day. We only have so many of them.
Like my wife and I, you are fortunate to be in good financial shape. Great job! Use it to your advantage. Avoiding anger, pain, and a drawn out divorce (should it come to that) would be worth a few bucks to me. No sense in giving more to the lawyers.
Bust on, Bright... and thanks for all the support you've given me.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
