hi kaw - it is so good to have your feedback - i'm learning all the time just how powerful validation and friendship is and yes, i needed to hear from someone else that the indications point to H no longer being involved with OW. i think i'm going thru a natural phase that many others seem to have, the one where we cannot quite believe it is over, and just waiting for the other shoe to drop
well, it was a great weekend, neither of us communed with our laptops in fact, i notice that H dives into his the minute i'm logged on, so even at the risk of not having enough time on this bb, i plan to NOT touch my computer at home, unless absolutely necessary. we ended up watching a few movies on dvd, sat together and actually got talking about selling the flat. H agreed - yay it does mean we will be taking a financial loss, but i feel so much better as we sever yet another tie with the town that houses OW
i guess there are still unresolved issues, doubts, fears within me - how is H feeling now about OW - it has been 26 days since the END. why is H still carrying around her token on his keyring why do i need to know more about his movements - will i ever be able to trust again? nothing new, just the same old path beaten by millions of betrayed spouses before me, and sadly, no doubt millions more to come. sigh.
but to focus, my goals for this week are to make H feel more loved and cherished than last week, move along the sale of the flat, and have a great easter weekend away with H.
and yes, i needed to hear from someone else that the indications point to H no longer being involved with OW. i think i'm going thru a natural phase that many others seem to have, the one where we cannot quite believe it is over, and just waiting for the other shoe to drop 
in fact, i notice that H dives into his the minute i'm logged on, so even at the risk of not having enough time on this bb, i plan to NOT touch my computer at home, unless absolutely necessary. we ended up watching a few movies on dvd, sat together and actually got talking about selling the flat. H agreed - yay 
it does mean we will be taking a financial loss, but i feel so much better as we sever yet another tie with the town that houses OW 
why do i need to know more about his movements - will i ever be able to trust again? nothing new, just the same old path beaten by millions of betrayed spouses before me, and sadly, no doubt millions more to come. sigh. 
