hard to believe it is thursday already, and april to boot - life seems to be rushing by

positives yesterday
++ H came over for lunch, again he seemd very happy to be with me, we had a lovely time. we both went home early, had tea together and continued working in companionable peace and quiet.
++ i wanted to go for a run, and H decided to join me - nice. BUT, when we came back, he went straight back to work. probably crazymaking here, but emails were main mode of communications between H and OW, so i really find it tough to stop obsessing about it
++ i continued my stance from last week, that i'll start cooking when we both are ready to relax - explained that i did not want to put pressure on him to finish before eating... i'm quite determined that we will have quality time in the evenings especially as i was taking the trouble to cook a nice meal - new egg recipe - which H was very appreciative of

developments to reflect on
?? the book love is a decision came in the post, and H frankly devoured it. i'm not sure if this is a good sign, especially as i have not yet read the book. am also wondering what he will do with DR - any advice on when is a good time to introduce this to H?
?? i was supposed to travel next week for business, but managed to get someone else to cover for me. the A really developed during my extensive travel time 6 months ago. H has always maintained that my travel was not an issue, but seeing how happy he is that i've cancelled my trip, makes me think, that like rotz, i should remember to listen with my eyes open. hmmm, wonder what other red herrings i need to bury

targets for today
** start the ball rolling on selling our flat so we can move back to where our main home is. we are in a small town now, work is convenient, OW lives here. social life is a bit more restricted, i think H may have also been missing family and friends, so moving back seems like a good idea. but, H is not yet convinced, need to work on this
** ask for more PT - this is definitely both our LL, so we need to be comfortable indulging

lots of good things, though lots of stuff still unsaid, but i guess these will take time. enjoying today, slowly

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