She Wants Me to Leave 3rd Time .....EA or not EA?

[isittoolate]

I'm trying to get my head around what happened with these two visits to the sex shop by W.

In June it was one week after we last ML, and around the timescale the W's GFs said they were all going to visit the shop.
Maybe W went with them and just put me off the trail.

She buys regular lingerie and light BDSM stuff and an experimental anal item.

Then in Sept she knows what turns her on so gets more anal stuff.

All the time she is detaching from me. My big worry? Is there OM somewhere in all if this? Has she hooked up to dating sites or BDSM sites? Or is this just fulfilling her fantasies in a safe way.? She is in control with no OM to complicate things?

I won't get much sleep tonight.