Thats hard to say. I have endured 9 months of lies and deceit. My moral compass says this marriage needs to end. My D spoke to her last night and W told her she chooses him over her. How deranged is that. Really!! Who does that. I still love her and will be kind as I can but I will not put up with that kind of crap. I dont care if she is in lala land or not. Hopefully she comes to her senses sometime down the road. Normal people don't walk away on their kids. I will keep trying to reach her but she has mentally ck'd out at this point.