I know the deadline sounds ominous, but try not to let it bother you. It wouldn't change what is actually already happening on a day to day basis, would it? I'm glad you stood your ground to make sure that everything is in order before anything is official. That buys you more time.
I'm so sorry your dad isn't doing well. Hopefully the doctors can identify any issues and begin treatment.
Keep your chin up!
Regards,
Cristy
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