kaw - thanks so much, i cannot say enough about just how encouraging it is to have your feedback. it gets lonely here sometimes, because I have chosen not to tell another soul about the A. so, apart from H, there has been no one until now to vent at
well, time to review and update goals, i think. H seems to be amenable to gentle nudging, so I need to think carefully about next steps.
today, I was delighted that he contacted me during work twice, just to check in and see how I was. Over dinner we also had a chat about OW, he initiated it, saying he was pleasantly surprised there has been NO contact for over 2 weeks. OW had always maintained that even after end of A, she wanted to be friends, which my H never thought was a good idea. Good for him. sooo, we are both happy with the way things are progressing thus far. However, I do notice H sometimes feeling sad, I guess getting over a relationship can be tough, and best I can do is to give him the space and ignore these moods.
on the down side, we agreed that for our upcoming easter holiday, I'll sort out the flights and he'll do the hotel, and he suggested yesterday I may want to do the hotel as he has no time - I'm gonna stand my ground on this, time H pitched in and shared tasks. Will be good distraction for him too
plan to read up again on goal setting today, so i can end the week with a plan for the next few days. slowly.
