Why is there a need to even send anything In writing?
When you write anything to him that is expressing your frusturations or anger or sadness It shows you still care and are still attached and you are still trying to get some attention from him. I feel like he knows you want to reconcile so why tell him again in a letter. It just gives him more power right? d I think the biggest way to hurt someone is to just ignore them. Address them politely with short words answers when you absolutely have to and probabldy only if you have small kids or urgent business. Or refer them to lawyer. Or just don't respond. Those actions will Demonstrate everything your letter says. And I think men dget actions more then words. They already know what they didd, so telling them is just clinging and trying to get your point across.
Couldn't you have a lawyer write the letter instead? More formal and distant and then noddd confusion about plans.
More importantly... Ancaire, if you are seeking order of protection and then putting In writing that you wish to go to counseling and are willing to make things work if he drops other woman, your allegations might not be taken seriously. Just leave him alone right now. Avoid him at all costs by whatever means necessary.
Edit - Please start a new thread - Cadet
Last edited by Cadet; 12/14/1507:40 PM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
