D - when you read my thread, you will see that somehow, someway, without you saying a word....they know. I just had one of the most frightening episodes of my life because I finally dropped the rope on Friday. I never spoke to H...but he knew he'd lost control somehow. It is freaky stuff.
Please try and stop feeling guilty. Focus on giving her what she says she wants. You letting go is probably your best shot at getting her back. It seems crazy, but it is absolutely true. And if she wants to go on her merry way? You'll be okay - because you dropped the rope. You didn't choose this. You've fought hard. You did not give up.
You're a terrific father, a great friend...some woman is going to be extremely lucky one day! It may or may not be W, but some lucky lady is going to wind up with a fantastic man.
